I’ve talked about “phosphorus” (https://pzspodcast.fireside.fm/272) before — the ever-glowing points of connection that constitute a kind of trail within the story of our life. Today the subject is another kind of phosphorus, its other side of the coin, by which I mean rejection.
In late career I experienced a rejection so mighty in effect that it seemed to pull down the curtain on decades of ministry. This rejection came as an utter surprise.
So one day, during the lowest point, I’m in a Jewish deli in SE Florida. And the song “When Smokey Sings” by ABC comes on. The lilting ‘Motown’ sound carries me right back to former times, of happiness and joy. At the same time, the song becomes instant phosphorus to whatever trail of rejection I have trodden in life.
Rejection is decisive! Whether it comes in affairs of the heart, or at work, or in any relationship you want to name — whether it comes in the form of cancer, self-sabotage, or an intrigue mounted against you — rejection is impossible to swallow and assimilate, at least not in the initial instance. Some rejections — like Charles Foster Kane’s childhood rejection in Citizen Kane (1941) — are never overcome. They can stay with you forever.
Yet there is a way. There is in fact the promise of new love, which life, which God, almost always brings once you say goodbye to the rejecting love. As my friend Paula White says, When you say ‘goodbye’, God will bring you a new ‘hello’.
The Dave Clark Five told the truth back in 1964. You can hear their “take” on this at the end of the cast. But The Beatles did, too, on “Magical Mystery Tour”: “I don’t know why you say goodbye, I say hello.”
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